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I'm Amber, I'm a trans woman living and working in Dublin, as a software developer for a video game studio that shall remain unnamed.

I run the gravitas.cafe instance, @ me if you have any thoughts/opinions/concerns/requests about the instance, or have any questions about how the Fediverse do, I'll do my best to help out.

Expect lots of toots about , and my / experience. Also lots and lots of selfies.

Working out for the first time in a few weeks, and had to stop to put on a bra because my boobs were bouncing and it hurt too much. I am now officially girl.

I think i might try to play through all the Kingdom Hearts. By the time I'm done 3 should have had a re-release or 4 so I don't have to buy a PS4.

Nothing quite like sparking an extended conversation about short lived 80s cartoon Turbo Teen. I love my friends.

It still feels so weird to just...show up at work in full girl mode and have people use my name. Like, this is just who I am now and no-one has any issue with it.

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*hits a big red button at my gender reveal party*
*all the lights in the room go out, a pure white spotlight shines directly on me*
Much like the light from this spotlight, all genders are part of a near-infinite spectrum. In this talk I intend to teach you about...

Like, DD big. Which is not something I'm likely to reach naturally, and is gonna be a lot to try and get people at work to get used to when I just start wearing them one day.

bought me some smaller breast forms. I currently have 2 pairs, one of which is reasonably sized, but flat-backed so they crush my now very sensitive breast buds, so can't wear them for extended periods of time. The other pair is just far too big for me. Far too big.

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So most of my Spotify listening experience is random playlists they recommend me.

Currently it is playing "Life is a Highway"....." From 'Cars'". Spotify please.

tired: the relief of taking off your bra at the end of a long day
wired: the relief of taking off your tits at the end of a long day

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the trans domme life is hard. i have to try and balance my desire to be uwu smol bean and my neeed to be stern mamma for my good girls. It's tricky.

Wearing my breast forms to work for the first time today. Moderately anxious about it, but mostly just super happy to be able to look down and just..have boobs be there.

so...I'm out at work now, and I want to present more feminine. which means I want to wear my breast forms until my natural boobs come in.

But....that means I show up to work one day with sudden boobs and no-one will ever say anything about it but they'll *definitely* notice.

what do

it's amazing how good it feels to purge usage of my old name from work systems. Basically everything is done now, just need to get my actual username updated by IT, and my new badge sorted out, both of which should be done early next week, if not tomorrow.

This time next week, there should be no trace of my old name left except under the "Legal Name" fields of my employee profile.

work systems are starting to update with my new name. here we gooooooo

so tomorrow i just go to work and people will call me by my name??? and know that i'm a girl??? i'm sorry this must not be real life

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