grs joke Show more
They did surgery on my grapes.
It looks like I've got about 6GB of cached avatars stored on my Mastodon instance. This is by far the largest usage of space other than the media cache, does anyone know a good way to trim/prune this similar to the remote media purge? There's no way my instance sees 6GB worth of avatars on a regular basis.
surgery mention, coming out Show more
Ok did the thing. Turns out it was the first time that I've come out to anyone who doesn't already have in-depth knowledge of trans issues, which I hadn't realised before.
Yes, she asked about surgery. Yes, I deflected it and told her that was super personal.
No I am not looking forward to answering that question 500 more times over the next few months.
screaming Show more
For gravitas.cafe friends Show more
Local instance friends, I'm thinking of setting up a Google Form for other folks to apply to join the instance, and advertise it a bit. Are y'all comfortable with that, or would you rather it remain a more exclusive space?
You're also all welcome to invite your friends to join whenever you want, there should be an "Invite People" link in the Getting Started section.
selfie, eye contact Show more
An overwhelming abundance of fluff.
HRT question Show more
@wersimmon Pills need to be taken 3x a day in most cases, which can be hard to keep track of for some people, and are pretty hard on the liver unless you get the sublingual variety. They also tend to be associated with mood swings and nausea
Patches are a great alternative, but a lot of people have trouble keeping them on which gets annoying, and they're more expensive.
Shots only need to be taken once every week or two, and dosages are more exact. But y'know, needles.
@cdmnky Supplemental idea: Also it's in real life and you can do it like a murder mystery weekend.
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