Some day I'll be able to go out in full 'girl mode' without feeling so constantly on edge. Today, however, is not that day.

I mean, I could just go through and remove everything over a certain age, but I'm worried that'll remove my users' avatars, and it's not the neatest way to clean a cache.

It looks like I've got about 6GB of cached avatars stored on my Mastodon instance. This is by far the largest usage of space other than the media cache, does anyone know a good way to trim/prune this similar to the remote media purge? There's no way my instance sees 6GB worth of avatars on a regular basis.

surgery mention, coming out Show more

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MoxCheese boosted

the reason you need to CW your nudes and porn isn't because someone might be at work. it's because someone might not want to see nudes or porn.

this message has been brought to you by the association of people in favor of content warnings that actually say what the content is.

So assuming I don't chicken out, I'm coming out to a HR person today, and removing the last excuse I've made for myself not coming out to everyone else.

Lend me your energy, friends.

Hey y'all, tank tops are great. That is all.

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It will never stop feeling weird taking off my boobs at the end of the day. I look forward to when I no longer have to do this.

I have good friends. They're nice to be around and make me happy. :blobuwu:

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It's ironic that I have to spend the entire day that I get laser done with stubble. Thanks biology.

@cdmnky Supplemental idea: Also it's in real life and you can do it like a murder mystery weekend.

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Jorts discourse Show more

Jorts discourse Show more

Laser done! Barely even felt it (except for the chin, that was a bitch), went super quick. Face is a little sore, but overall totally fine.

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